There will be ups and downs in all married life. Some important things to take into consideration are to differentiate between 'needs' and 'wants'. Needs are highly essential in life. But 'wants' can be delayed based on financial capacity. In furnishing new home, car, clothes, fancies etc. are some areas where couples go for loans. Loans which is within your repayable limit is advisable. Do not get tempted with your spouse's words to get into debt. Make choices to live with the needs help you live without debt to be happy and makes a peaceful life. The kids will also follow the simplicity of their parents.
Spouses should not make a point to complain. It will become a habit and attitude to complain all the time which spoils the happiness. Positive attitude towards life is highly essential to change your mind to change your spouse.
Plan the annual budget, trips, kid's education, other activities together to feel oneness and to act as a team to drive your life. Be more generous with time and money. Find your own time and family time in a regular basis to appreciate and support your spouse and kids.
Simplicity is the path to know and love yourself , your spouse and your family.
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