If you are open minded you will be transparent to your spouse. Openness leads to honesty and simplicity. You are like an open book. Everything is written, nothing is there to hide. Couples can be at ease and can find life becoming more comfortable.
There are some couples who hide even simple things from their spouses. I had friends, who purchase dresses and keep in office table because afraid to take home. Some buy jewellery by their own and say, it is gift from, mom, sister or aunt. Some will go for movie from office without telling their spouse. Likewise these are all silly and simple things keeping away from their spouses only because they are not transparent and open at heart. Doing such small things can go to higher levels which will go out of our control. It is better not to hide any thing from our spouse.
Transparency builds up faith in each other. Mutual trust and understanding is the greatest strength in a successful marriage. They are able to love unconditionally without any expectations. The rules and regulations in between them are common and easily manageable. There will be no I and You in between them, only We. We can easily understand that from their conversations. They always use 'we, our, us'. We can't hear they using the words, 'I, my or mine'. Both of them do all their work at home in unity. Transparency will drive away doubt, fear, jealous, grudge or past incidents. They can easily appreciate and support their spouse.
There are some couples who hide even simple things from their spouses. I had friends, who purchase dresses and keep in office table because afraid to take home. Some buy jewellery by their own and say, it is gift from, mom, sister or aunt. Some will go for movie from office without telling their spouse. Likewise these are all silly and simple things keeping away from their spouses only because they are not transparent and open at heart. Doing such small things can go to higher levels which will go out of our control. It is better not to hide any thing from our spouse.
Transparency builds up faith in each other. Mutual trust and understanding is the greatest strength in a successful marriage. They are able to love unconditionally without any expectations. The rules and regulations in between them are common and easily manageable. There will be no I and You in between them, only We. We can easily understand that from their conversations. They always use 'we, our, us'. We can't hear they using the words, 'I, my or mine'. Both of them do all their work at home in unity. Transparency will drive away doubt, fear, jealous, grudge or past incidents. They can easily appreciate and support their spouse.
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