Recognition and acceptance are the most important factors raised in a marriage seminar where I attended. Thus the empathy part in married life is becoming less and less. Now a days communication between couples are through SMS and text messages. So healthy communication is not going through couples who are busy in official life. Children are becoming the scapegoats in between the busiest time of their parents. Spouses are having all amenities for their own and there is no point on depending each other. They are having their own fun such as shopping, dine out, birthday parties, girl's or boy's day out likewise. 'Let it go' mentality is good. Instead of 'let it go', couples are finding their own way 'to let go' instead of having fun together. The appreciation part of each other in married life is totally lacking. Since the couples are having their own space to relax in life, the battle of chores at home remain unaddressed suffering by the person more responsible with the kids and home. It is wise to have a dependency between each other to have a wanted feeling among the couples. The 'I' and 'You' model relationship is the key factor in the disturbing the harmony in married life.
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